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Index › Self Enhancement › Goal Setting & Self Motivation
 

What is Holding you Back?

 
Author: Andreas Obermueller
 

Did you ever ask yourself one or more of the following questions: How is life so hard to me? Why cant I succeed? Why are all circumstances against me? Why dont I have the money I want (and need)? Why do I have this boring job? Why? Why? Why.''?

Jesus, I m sure you Did! *grin*

Me too, so nothing worse about it. Its just human!
The important thing is how long do you ask yourself these questions! What do you really get, if you ask them for yourself?
What do these answers, you get, do with you? Do you feel better, neutral or even worse really upset and depressed?

Do these questions really help'?

You know the answer (or you really should do)! Most of the times you get negative feelings!

So, wouldnt it be much better do ask yourself the following questions: WHAT makes me happy? WHAT I am proud of? WHAT in my life is wonderful or at least o.k.? WHAT can I really be thankful for?

You see WHAT has much more positive power than Why!

If you asked yourself the last question and found at least one thing (Im sure you did!), did you feel the positive energy within you?
Just a little bit? Yes? Cool! You got it!!! :-)

Now you might be interested in finding some additional questions that assign more of these positive feelings within you.
If not its o.k. You now can stop reading here! ;-)

HOW did I know that you continue reading here? Am I an clairvoyant? No, I am not!
But I am sure that you want do feel better and find some good questions that assign those positive feelings and gain your energy and power!

HOW can you find those additional questions? You already found the next one HOW?

HOW? can I become happy? HOW can I achieve financial security? HOW can I find my ideal mate? HOW can I succeed?
HOW (find yourself an example her!)?

What does this HOW? cause? You get RESOLUTIONS!

Your thinking flows away from your state of victim and drama and hops into seeking for resolutions, ways to start, etc.!
That is very important! Dou you feel the power behind HOW? Fine! :-)

WHO can be an additional question. E.g. WHO has the information that I need? WHO can help me? WHO is willing to assist me?
WHO knows how to succeed? WHO is already an expert in what I am looking for? WHO (find yourself an example here)?

HOW do you feel now? Better? I hope so!
If not .... are you sure you didnt cheat? *g*

As you see, questions can be very powerful!

So what questions will you ask yourself to start with more power into 2006?

WHAT is my goal for this year? WHAT is my next step into this direction? WHO is able to assist me? HOW can I find someone who is able to assist me in marketing? WHO else can find someone for me who is able and willing to assist me?

Ask yourself the right questions and take action NOW!
NOW is the time to become the best person you ever were meant to be!

Andreas Obermueller is webmaster of http://www.hit4biz.com - a marketing related information portal that is built to assist other people in building, running, maintaining and succeeding with their own online business. He is also a NLP-MASTER-Practitioner and personally recommends Subliminal Software

 
 
 

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