Many men think that in order to attract a woman you need to listen to her and share a bit about yourself as well. Yet the truth of the matter is what she has to say and what she wants to know mean absolutely nothing.

When a man introduces himself to a woman his #1 priority should be to create a certain level of comfort in her. The great thing about making a woman comfortable is it usually means that you yourself are comfortable as well.

Now, when I say comfortable I mean relaxed and at the same time no more special than anyone else.

Once you have created that level of comfort it is important that you move on to creating attraction in her both with your words and touch.

What happens a lot of times is that men either don't know how to create attraction in women and simply pick an arbitrary moment in the comfort stage to move in for the kiss or they know how to create attraction in women but for whatever reason choose to skip the entire comfort building process. Which leads women to find them very rude and questioning there motives.

The easiest way to create attraction in a woman is by asking her questions that cause her to remember a time when she felt attraction towards someone. Ironically another way that you will have created attraction in her is by not answering her questions and making her answer your questions instead.

When it comes to talking to attract women you have two choices. You can just talk to be talking and answering her meaningless questions that lead down the path to nowhere, or you can create comfort and attraction in a woman with your stories and question that will lead her to feel attraction towards you.