Guys are always bragging about how they can keep going all night. I'm not going to enter the debate about whether this in possible or not, theres no point; I'm here to tell you that there is a lot more to being a great lover than keeping it up and in fact sexual penetration.

Most men have issues about their penis size. It could be longer; it could be wider; it could last longer! Have you hear the line? 'Ugly girls are more grateful'? Well the female equivalent is 'Guys with small penis's have more to prove and are better with their hands'

The lessons to learn from this line, is to work with what you have and practice other pleasurable techniques. After all 90% of women can not climax with penetration alone anyway so why focus on the 10% who can when you can have lots of other fun with the 90% who can't!

Additionally, the female G-spot is situated just a couple of inches in on the vaginal wall, you don't need a 12 inch cock to reach it, you just need to know the sex positions that stimulate the G-spot.

The first thing to do is to gain a little self-confidence, the simplest way to do this is to trim your bush around your cock and balls. Having less hair makes your cock look bigger with will give your ego an instant boost. Another confidence builder is a cock and ball ring, which amongst other things enhance the look of your penis by holding your cock and balls in a more up-right position which instantly makes it look larger than it is. If you penis looks bigger, your confidence shows in your posture and confidence is very attractive to a woman. These two simple steps will increase your sex appeal.

If you still feel inadequate there are penis developers available on the market designed to enlarge the penis. Some work with a vacuum, the traditional penis pump. This works on the theory that if used regularly the veins in the penis stretch to accommodate more blood into the penis and thus making it bigger. An automatic penis pump is also now available, it works in exactly the same way, but it has a switch that does all the work, so no pumping. This also is probably the safer suction choice because using suction devices too much can break capillaries.

Traction developers work a bit like the rack, based on the principle of traction. You wear the device and over time it stimulates the growth of the tissues of the penile shaft, enlarging the length of your penis. For more information and a demonstration movie of how the traction system works click here

If all that sounds too strenuous or if you have misgivings about the effects of penis developers maybe penis enhancing supplements are something you might consider. There are many herbal supplements around that can help with small penis size, the inability to maintain erection, incomplete erections or diminished sexual drive.

The benefit of using herbal supplements is that you don't have the embarrassment of going to see a doctor, they are non-prescription alternatives. You must read the packet properly before taking any supplements.

An alternative that will not have any side effects is performance enhancing creams and sprays. You many need to try a few creams and/or sprays until you find the right one that works for you but some creams are available in sample sizes which is convenient when you want to shop around to find the most effective for you.

Less drastic ways of increasing your penis size and/or maintaining an erection for longer periods is to use...

Cock rings - not only do they enhance the appearance of your cock and make it look bigger but the also maintain the erection by trapping blood in the penis on a similar principle to a tourniquet. Cock rings also have clit ticklers attached to them, which helps the 90% of women who need clitoral stimulation during sex to climax.

Sleeves and extensions - wearing a sleeve helps you to maintain an erection for longer because it desensitises the penis making it take longer for you to climax. Sleeves also come in interesting shapes and designs and women enjoy the nobly ones. Extenders are all this and more because they add centimetres to your length, and once in place you could simply pass off the extenuation as a sleeve.

You also need to study technique and practice learnt techniques. If you read all of the chapters of pleasure-toyz they will give you hints and tips of how to be a great lover and they will also suggest how you could get in some practice before you try out your techniques on someone.