Ever watched one of those raunchy Hollywood movies where the leading guy pushes the girl against the wall to passionately kiss her and then forcefully throw her on the bed and rip off her panties as she gasps looking flushed; and thought, Id like to have passionate sex like that? Well maybe your partner does too. Surveys show that many women fantasise of having aggressive sex.

The term aggressive sex doesnt mean literal aggression in the sense that you hurt or even rape your partner. It just means that your are forceful, controlling and direct, taking what you want with a smouldering mean and moody expression, in a game of role play.

Here are some tips and pointers to surprise your partner, and to help you achieve passionate aggressive movie style sex.

There is some preparation that you need to do before the event. Firstly get a shit, shower and shave. You dont want to start role-playing and have her push you away because of bad breath or a four oclock shadow.

You also need to map out in your head the way its gong to go. Forced up against the wall in the hall, backed up over the arm of the sofa, lifted on to the coffee table and a grand finale on the rug in front of the fire, if it lasts that long. The plan really is up to you, because youll be the one with full control. You do need to bear in mind however, that this type of sex is no frills, you both get off in the role play and not foreplay.

Speaking of which, youre also going to need a hardon. If the mental stimulation isnt enough maybe you could self induce before slipping into character.

So what sort of thing is considered aggressive sex? You should make all your movements firm and deliberate, be forceful without causing harm; for example, forcing her against the wall and holding her there firmly with a hand holding her neck, or maybe with a fist full of her hair. Being held in place is very sexy because youre being completely controlled.

You need to take control of all her movements, open her legs with a free hand and force your leg between them to prevent her from closing her legs. All of your movements should be brash as though youre pissed off, and maintain eye contact as much as possible.

Kissing and biting are really important. Kiss her deeply on the mouth forcing her to move her head back. You can kiss her skin but do not nibble or caress, hold her flesh between your teeth in a bite like pose but do not apply too much pressure so that you leave marks.

It is important to not remove too much clothing. Undo her top and lift her bra up to free her breasts, but do not remove these garments properly. This kind of role-play is about sexual need not skin to skin intimacy.

Pull panties to one side to gain access to see if your Hollywood style aggressive approach is working its magic, and exert your control by making her suck your finger afterwards. All this is symbolic of your power, your sexual prowess and your ability to penetrate her defences.

Just before the moment of penetration you should rip off her panties unleash your manhood and hold her down whilst you penetrate her in a wild frenzy of animal like passion.

After lay back, relax and wait for the floods of praise.